Between-session companionship in therapy: why it matters
Phobia therapy works one hour a week, but life is the other 167. Good between-session companionship multiplies progress.
Claustrophobia affects between 5% and 7% of the adult population. It usually appears in late adolescence or early adulthood, and the symptom most people associate with it — being stuck in a lift — is in fact just the tip.
The deep core of claustrophobia is not the size of the space. It is the perception of not being able to get out. A wide tunnel with no exit triggers more anxiety than a narrow alley with the way open. The cognitive theme is captivity, not smallness.
A claustrophobe usually has triggers in several of these categories, with different intensities. Not all reach phobic level: many people manage tunnels but block at MRI scans.
The sympathetic system activates anticipating "if I need to get out, I won't be able to". The thought "I won't be able to get out" feeds back the body, which generates more sensations, which feed the thought, which… The loop classically ends in a panic attack.
A key feature: there is no actual external danger. The lift is not falling, the tunnel is not collapsing. The danger is internal: a feeling that escalates and you do not know how to stop.
A standard ladder, adjustable:
For tunnels and MRI scans, similar ladders, starting with virtual exposure and gradually moving to real environments.
The MRI is one of the most common claustrophobic experiences in adults because you cannot avoid it: when a doctor orders it, you usually need it. Practical strategies:
For severe claustrophobes, anxiolytic premedication (low-dose benzodiazepine, 30-45 minutes before) is acceptable in this specific case. Discuss with your GP or referring doctor.
The lift is the most "trainable" of all because you can decide when to do it. Recommended frequency: 3-4 times a week, in different lifts. Avoid the very specific lift that has scared you most before — start with neutral ones.
If you live in a tower block and you have not used the lift for months, the recovery plan can take 4-6 weeks. Going up the stairs in the meantime is fine, but should not become permanent: avoidance maintains the phobia.
These behaviours work for a while, but they prevent the brain from confirming that the lift is safe without them. The goal is to retire them gradually.
Claustrophobia responds very well to cognitive-behavioural therapy in 8-12 sessions. Virtual reality is also useful for tunnels and MRIs.
Claustrophobia is not lack of courage. It is a brain that has learned to read certain spaces as "no way out". With patience and a graded plan, the brain learns that the way out is always there — even when there is no door.
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